How to stay safe while hosting a cumdump scene
Being ass up, perhaps even blindfolded with random and anonymous guys coming into the room is the ultimate exposure of your hole, but also your items. There are a few tricks you can use in order to mitigate that risk of both your stuff and you as a person.
Do’s & Don’ts
Don’t post your room number publicly online. While you may wish to reduce communication, it poses too many risks to a much wider audience. Someone could easily grab their buddies and ransack your room. Plus, there’s potential for jealous cumdumps to call the hotel to identify your activity or even the hotel itself finding this promotion; not only on the day, but later as your reservation would indicate your complete booking information and if at a chain hotel, you could be banned.
Do get a Google Voice number. Your phone number is attached to a plethora of information, easily searchable online. While most have good intentions, there will always be some nefarious guys who may capitalize on the cumdump scene and possibly even afterwards with that information. Not only does it keep your real number private, but it can help segment conversations, so the raunchy messages won’t be integrated into your texting app. You also have the ability to view and respond via the computer.
Don’t leave things out in the open. If you’re planning on sleeping overnight in the same room, you’ll likely have other clothes, toiletries and even electronics. If there’s a safe in the room, that’s of course the best option for your valuables. (So you don’t forget, leave a shoe or something you’d need to leave so you don’t forget them when you check-out.) If you have a car, you can leave these in the trunk (although it could pose a risk if you’re in a sketchy area). You can also keep everything in your suitcase, locked, and in the closet; with something in front that would make a noise. (You can even put a little bell on your suitcase so while you’re face is buried in a pillow, you’d hear that noise and know something is up.) If the bed base is flat, you can also put things such as phones and computers between that and the mattress; just make sure it’s at the wall’s edge where it’s unlikely anyone will sit or put weight on.
Do buddy up if you can or find someone who’s interested in monitoring the scene. In a dream world, we’d just get into position and have someone ‘pimp’ out our holes, but that’s not always an option. (We are working on an idea surrounding this, hopefully to launch in Summer 2024.) You can also find another cumdump buddy which will not only increase the amount of outreach to guys for a visit, but having another person there will always reduce any safety issues.
Don’t let a guy throw the key on the counter. If you end up at a hotel that requires a key (avoided when staying at a Cumdump Hotel), you may be inclined to hide a key for guys to use for the elevator. If you do this, make sure to take a picture of where it is so send to guys so it’s clear. In this instance, rather than having a guy throw it on the counter when he walks in, make sure he gives it to you. While he may accidentally take it, forcing you to get another extra for more guys’ visits, it risks later entry. You can have all of the keys deactivated, but that’s a hassle.
Do leave a set of clothes easily available. If after a guy leaves and there’s not another one about to slide in your hole, it’s best to do just a quick view of the room. If you notice something missing and you can quickly throw on those clothes and run after the guy. While you’re waiting hooded or head down, you can usually tell when a guy enters (a small bell on the door will also help) and if you sense he’s walking around the room, that may be an indication he’s looking for things. That’s why it’s always best to have everything he’ll need to plow you right there. Use your senses and intuition!
Don’t leave the door wide open, especially if at a motel-style property. Not only does it expose your activity, resulting in the hotel kicking you out, but also people passing by who may just pop in and take something. You should tape the ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign hanging from the knob and also use clear packing tape to secure the latch, thus having your door appear to be closed, but just easily pushed open.
Do properly secure your room when you’re finished. Again, if you’re staying in the room and plan on being available in the morning, you may not want to go through the hassle of removing the tape on the door latch. If there’s not another security feature on the door, you can bring your own, such as this one.
While cumdumping is fun, new guys can be nervous about ensuring it’s a safe scene. If you have any other tips, drop them in the comments below!
